Just in case you're not aware, you can do an EMTRON KV8 and a pair of BRZ injector drivers for a V8. Emtron supports DI with an external driver.
Holley, Emtron and Link (and Motec of course, if I want to wipe out my 401k) can do it, with the right add-ons. Here's where I went with the process:
Holley: $3000+ for a Terminator X Max. Limited ability to fuss with the direct injection side in the future, some debate around managing drivability on modded stuff with the DI. Seems best suited for stock swaps in muscle cars.
Emtron: $4000+ with the drivers. Need to do advanced modeling of pump/injection timing on a dyno.
Link: $4000+ for G5 Voodoo Pro with the drivers. Need to do advanced modeling of pump/injection timing on a dyno.
Motec: $7000+. Need to do advanced modeling of pump/injection timing on a dyno.
If I had a tuner that could deal with the Emtron or Link locally, and had experience/track record getting them going on a Gen V, I'd probably have gone that way. I don't have the depth or experience to greenfield a DI tune, and I expect getting someone in the US that could would mean shipping my car somewhere and adding another $4-5k in getting it there/tune/back. At that point, I'm realistically $8-10K into a standalone that doesn't really do much the OEM ECU can't with HP Tuners and an external wideband.
I don't particularly like HP Tuners (had a bad experience with the company years ago) but a stock ECU + HPT seems like a slam dunk for cost/benefit. I used to work with a guy who is a top tier Gen V tuner with HPT who is semi-local (90 minutes away) and has owned Gen V records on Cadillacs and Corvettes a bunch of times. That was my end deciding factor. I'll be able to get the car running/driving fine myself with HPT, and then trailer it over to him to properly dial it in. At least that's the theory, anyway.

To be clear, I appreciate the feedback/info. Just thought I'd share my thought process with ending up on tuned stock ECU. If Haltech had a good DI solution, I'd probably have looked a lot harder at that option as well, just because I like their company/support.