First download all the wiring sections in the FSM.
Then look up a you tube video on how to use a multimeter to test for voltage, continuity etc. Use your daily driver to test yourself make sure you understand.
Look up how to wire relays
Read and reread the wiring instructions Ronin gave you.
Poke around in the car, and start identifying wires before you start connecting or cutting anything.
To get the ECU to work in the car all you need are:
Ground
12V switched power
12v constant
set up a relay for your fan(s) - ECU pulses ground for fans
Set up a relay for your fuel pump - ECU pulses 12v+ for fuel pump
Connect OBD plug to ECU, 12V constand and ground
Connect CEL lamp
Connect tach signal
Connect speedo signal
You are going to need to add a small auxilary fuse panel for the things below:
You'll need to connect things near the ignition switch. That is where you will pull 12V constant, 12V switch, and 12V to engage the starter. You'll see a few thick wires coming off of the back of it, that travel down the steering column. Those are it.
You'll need to add a fuel pump relay somewhere in the car. Adding it in the back near the driver side shock tower area is pretty easy. After adding the relay, you just have to tap into one wire to make it work.
You'll need to wire up a relay for your radiator fan.
You'll need to tap into the cluster harness to make the tach work, and whatever you do for the speedo. Also to add a CEL if you want one.
These are my notes of where I tapped into each wire on the car, with where they terminated. You'll notice there are a couple wires that change color along the way, that is because I did not have wire colors that matched factory or GM ECU wire colors.
Fuel Pump Wiring Original blue power wire with yellow stripe used as signal wire to relay coil. Signal wire tapped behind dead pedal with 14 AWG yellow wire with black tracer, Yellow/black wire runs to ECU fuse panel in passenger footwell. ECU fuel pump signal wire 20 AWG green with white tracer runs to other side of ECU fuse panel. New fuel pump relay with integrated fuse in trunk area, wired to original E-04 plug. Relay ground wired to E-04 factory ground. 12V Power direct from battery.
Fan and relay Wiring 1 relay per fan. Left relay controls left side fan and right relay controls right side fan. Dark Blue 14 AWG wire in front chassis harness spliced to coil wire of both 40A relays with integrated fuse (green wires on relay sockets). Dark blue wire is soldered to fan signal wire from ECU harness (20 AWG green wire). ECU pulses ground for fan control. Black wire on relay socket (other side of coil) is spliced to Yellow 14ga wire in front chassis harness. Yellow wire runs to 12v switched on ECU fuse panel in passenger footwell. White 14 AWG wire runs from fuse panel to switched 12V on steering column, see 12v switched section in wiring notes.
12V constant This is the thick white wire with pink tracer on the ignition switch. After ignition switch plug, wire changes to all black. Red 14 AWG wire ran to black wire at ignition switch plug on steering column. Red wire ran to ECU fuse panel.(2) 20 AWG red wires from fuse panel. 1 runs to 12V constant on OBD plug. The other is spliced to orange 20 AWG wire on ECU harness
12V switched This is the thick black wire with yellow tracer on the ignition switch. After ignition switch plug, wire changes to black with a white tracer. White 14 AWG wire ran to black wire with white tracer at ignition switch plug on steering column. White wire ran to ECU fuse panel and jumped across 3 ports on fuse panel. First is 12v switched to ECU, this is a pink 20 AWG wire that runs to the ECU harness. Second is Yellow 14 AWG wire for fan relay. Third is White 14 AWG wire for Accusump, this runs to center gauge panel switch.
Starter This is the thick black wire with red tracer on the ignition switch. After ignition switch plug, wire changes to black with a green tracer. Black 12 AWG wire ran to black wire with green tracer at ignition switch plug on steering column. Black wire ran to purple 12 AWG wire on ECU harness. Purple wire runs to starter solenoid.
OBD plug Green 20 AWG wire from ECU harness for data, red 20 AWG wire from ECU fuse panel for 12v constant, other 2 wires to ground.
Tach signal White 20 AWG wire from ECU harness soldered to yellow 20 AWG wire and ran to instrument cluster
Speedometer signal Dark green w/ white wire from red plug in GM engine harness, pin 50 (VSS output signal) to Purple 20 AWG wire soldered to blue 20 AWG wire and ran to instrument cluster.
CEL Brown with white tracer 20 AWG wire from ECU harness soldered to green 20 AWG wire and ran to instrument cluster
Diff Temp Diff temp uses original Low Fuel Light wire - 20 AWG white wire with red tracer. Wire tapped behind dead pedal and ran to original E-04 plug in trunk area. Red 20 AWG wire from dead pedal ran to gauge, Red 14 AWG wire used from fuel pump hat to differential.
Fuel level Factory 20 AWG wire white with green tracer used from fuel tank to gauge cluster plug.