I wanted to update this.
First off, I want to thank everyone here who reached out to me and were helpful in giving me a good word or direction. That means a lot and I really hope everyone here knows how much I appreciate this community and everyone in it. You guys (and girls) are awesome!
Secondly, I accepted a new job (local, yay!) today as a Sr. Network Architect with a big local company. It's a pretty different role than I've been in, but I'm excited to get started. It should, in theory, have much less 60-80 hour weeks than I do now. I work one day most weekends and 2-4 nights a week right now and to be blunt, I'm tired of it. Hopefully this new position will, after I'm up to speed, be able to put more time into my car/car related projects.

Again, a big thank you to everyone, I really appreciate it!
Oh, and if we're Facebook peeps, don't post anything about this. My current company has not announced my departure.