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Offline bikedad

My Dad
« on: November 20, 2012, 11:06:54 PM »
Hey guys,
My dad passed away last Monday from Lymphoma cancer at 77 years old. He was diagnosed a year ago. I thought he would get through it but wasn't to be. It's really tough to accept the finality of him being gone.
He was a great father and role model for me. My life, morals and values are shaped through what he taught me and how he raised me. He dedicated his life to serving his family and his compatriots in the military.
There wasn't a soldier who got by him without him thanking them for their service.
He served 21 years in the Air Force and 26 years in the American Legion. His first hitch was at the very end of the Korean conflict and through Vietnam. I grew up in the Air Force all across the world with him.

At his funeral his American Legion post stood guard over his remains. The Air Force sent an honor guard who did the 21 gun salute and flag folding ceremony. My step brother played taps on his bugle.
A close friend of my dad and I has a retired Air Force T-34. He did a beautiful fly over. South to North very low and fast then came around East to West even lower, almost brushing the tree tops. As he passed he went vertical and into a beautiful loop followed by a perfect barrel roll with a wing wag goodbye going into the sunset. It was truly amazing. There wasn't a dry eye. Even the Color Guard was tearing up.

My wife made this 15 minute video compilation of his life. I don't expect you all to really watch it but it helps me to deal with this. I just wanted people to see what he was about.

Don


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Offline FabChild

Re: My Dad
« Reply #1 on: November 20, 2012, 11:10:01 PM »
wow sorry to hear that, How are you holding up? Sounds like he was a great person! I wish you and your family all the best.
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Offline bikedad

Re: My Dad
« Reply #2 on: November 20, 2012, 11:14:20 PM »
wow sorry to hear that, How are you holding up?
It's pretty tough right now. Every emotion is raw. It's hard to accept he's gone. I keep thinking I'll see him or he'll call. He would call me almost everyday.
I have great memories that will get me through it.
Don Teifke  :drive:
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Offline 7StarrsSin

Re: My Dad
« Reply #3 on: November 20, 2012, 11:17:42 PM »
I am sorry for your loss! He sounds like a great father and a role model! My condolences
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Offline digitalsolo

Re: My Dad
« Reply #4 on: November 20, 2012, 11:24:32 PM »
We'll keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers Don.
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Offline jasong

Re: My Dad
« Reply #5 on: November 20, 2012, 11:48:36 PM »
Sorry for your loss Don, I will also keep you and your family in my prayers.

Offline screamin88

Re: My Dad
« Reply #6 on: November 21, 2012, 12:07:12 AM »
Well Don, I can say this... I know you have a lot of great memories to remember him by.  It never goes away, but the feelings have a way of taming down after some time.  He will always be in your heart and be with you where ever you go.  I look forward to planning another CarCraft trip with you and Kevin.  We will have to toast to your father by enjoying his favorite drink (whatever it may be)  :cheers:

Great video BTW...

This sucks, Ian

Offline Tictakman

Re: My Dad
« Reply #7 on: November 21, 2012, 06:55:42 AM »
Sorry to hear, I cant imagine how hard it would be to lose a close family member...


Offline texfc

Re: My Dad
« Reply #8 on: November 21, 2012, 09:25:32 AM »
Sorry to hear about your loss Don.  I lost my Dad in 2004 to heart disease and I still think about him almost daily.  Your Dad sounds a lot like mine, someone I always looked up to.  I know I’ll never accomplish as much as he did in his life, but it gives me something to aim for.  You and your family will be in our prayers.

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Re: My Dad
« Reply #9 on: November 21, 2012, 09:33:22 AM »
Don, I'm so sorry for your loss. If he's anything like you the world has lost a great man, but like others have said you'll always have your memories. I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts. Take care.

Offline DavidPHumes

Re: My Dad
« Reply #10 on: November 21, 2012, 10:41:35 AM »
Don - when the going gets tough, just remember that you had an outstanding relationship with your father and nothing will ever change that. My dad and I have a similar relationship, and I am reminded every day that not everyone is quite as fortunate.
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Offline jim3

Re: My Dad
« Reply #11 on: November 21, 2012, 12:53:16 PM »
Truely sorry for your loss Don.  My heartfelt condolences.
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Offline 1point3liter

Re: My Dad
« Reply #12 on: November 21, 2012, 01:35:48 PM »
wow sorry to hear that, How are you holding up?
It's pretty tough right now. Every emotion is raw. It's hard to accept he's gone. I keep thinking I'll see him or he'll call. He would call me almost everyday.
I have great memories that will get me through it.

sorry for your loss.

I unexpectedly lost my dad in June. He was only 62.
We used to talk almost daily too, so it's been hard on me.
It still doesn't seem real sometimes. It's very tough, but will get easier after some time passes.
Just try to remember the good times and keep yourself busy. That has helped me a lot.
-Bryan
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Offline bikedad

Re: My Dad
« Reply #13 on: November 21, 2012, 02:13:22 PM »

sorry for your loss.

I unexpectedly lost my dad in June. He was only 62.
We used to talk almost daily too, so it's been hard on me.
It still doesn't seem real sometimes. It's very tough, but will get easier after some time passes.
Just try to remember the good times and keep yourself busy. That has helped me a lot.
My prayers are with you also. My dad was battling cancer for a year so the possibility was always out there.
For you to lose your dad suddenly.....I feel for you.

Thanks for the kind words.

Thank you to all you guys. Interesting how all of you have come to be my friend and I haven't even met a lot of you in person.
We're all kindred spirits.

Don
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Offline Irishdriftking

Re: My Dad
« Reply #14 on: November 21, 2012, 03:53:21 PM »
Sorry for your loss. Its hard losing someone you are close with. I lost one of my best friends in February from an accident. Just remember how fortunate you were to know him and take for granted the things you have learned, the experiences you had and the fun you had with him.

Stay strong and keep on keepin' on
Mike
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