Okay, in addition to the Magnum F plans (still looking more McLeod RXT feedback if you have it), there's a couple more issues to solve and I could use a sanity check from folks who have gone before.
The Wahlbro 400 fuel pump is rated at 13-18A. My multimeter reads 0.7 ohm at the pump connector which implies 20A at 14V. Either way it's a bit too much for the stock 16 gauge wiring (might be 18, I'm eyeballing). I burned up a relay at autocross. It happened to me once before so I had a spare. Installed that, got one run in, then it failed too. These were all just stock Mazda relays I'd wired in (free was too appealing). Contacts on the power side seem to have a bit too much resistance so they heat up and corrode, which creates more heat and eventually it spirals. The connector failed before the fuse popped, but either way it's marginal.
No bueno.

The cut wires and duct tape isolation? Yeah, that was me striping wires with a knife and hard wiring the halves together... in the rain between runs.

I missed one run but the dudes at my autocross are chill bruthas, so they let me take a bonus run at the end rather than giving me a DNF. Didn't matter because my car is a HANDFUL in the rain so I wasn't fast, but hey, still cool of them and it's good to practice that kind of car control. It at least got me home, but I was thankful for the breaker at my battery (controversial subject for some but I still like it). At the moment if the battery is connected the pump is running so dead battery potential is high. Obviously not gonna leave it this way and have until Nov 22 to square it away before the next event.
The piece that has me scratching my head a bit is what to do at the ends. This guy--https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fix3a2sKkQw--does a good job laying out the system and talking about a few versions of rewiring. Downside, he's only ever tapping into the fuel pump connector's stock wiring, so he does nothing to address in tank wiring. I've never had a problem at the tank's bulkhead connector, but if the stock mazda relays contacts had issues I'm not especially inclined to trust the stock stuff back there, particularly if the failure mode is an excess generation of heat.
Fuel pump hanger doesn't have a lot of space to work with if I bought an ATL two wire bulkhead fitting (
https://www.summitracing.com/parts/abt-cfd-504?). Here's mine pulled out as of last night.

It seems like the only place left for me to put a larger bulkhead fitting would be to drill out the entire existing bulkhead and find a 4 wire bulkhead. That sucks and the wire sizes are so specific for the tank level sender and warning light I'm not sure it can be done. Anyone else do this with success?
The alternative I'm thinking about would be to run a single wire bulkhead for the power lead to the pump, then upsize the ground to the hanger hat (you can see it in the pic above). It's just a ground so if run a bigger wire to the hat internally then I can add extra grounding to the hat externally as well. Any downsides to this thinking? Anyone know for sure if the FC fuel tank is already grounded? I would assume yes, but I don't know for sure. Running an extra wire externally seems like cheap insurance.
If that theory all works, I already have a stack of single wire bulkhead connectors that might work from the MillenWorks' closing haul. The most likely would be this guy.
https://www.tme.eu/en/details/hummel-1609070060/glands/hummel/1-609-0700-60/ While it's just a generic cable gland, in looking through the cut sheet I don't see any obviously incompatible materials. Ref:
https://www.tme.eu/Document/501ff04cd9c399afb24d993205565977/HSK-M_EN.pdf It's nickel plated brass, polyamide/pvdf internals (related to nylon and these guys give it an A+ vs. gasoline:
https://www.ipexna.com/media/1485/pvdf-chemical-resistance-guide.pdf), while seals are buna-N which is also good to go. If I'm missing something please chime in but it looks okay as far as I can tell.
So if that all works, that just means I have to be sure I can find wiring that good for in tank use. I got tired of searching as there's a ton of diverging views (teflon coated wires etc). I also probably need to standardize on a style of electrical fittings that I know can carry the current. Figuring that out was on the to do list for the FJ40 anyways, but if folks have thoughts I'd appreciated it.