no offense to the OP
yeah...
Thats like grabbing my balls and calling "no homo."
Thanks for the gentle touch though.
edit:
In my defense, I will add that: I did heat the pulley before originally putting it on. With an oven, not a torch. Not really sure that I did it wrong, except my means for securing the assembly from rotating wasnt enough to support the 200 pounds of torque needed to pull it on.
You pulled it on with the bolt, not a proper installation tool. I am not trying to bash you, but you asked, and using the bolt to pull on the damper is the wrong way.
To clarify, my statement was general, not personal. It doesn't matter who you are, if you are stuck because you started a job the wrong way, I am going to assume that you will do other things the wrong way. Obviously this isn't true of you, since you heat the part in the oven, not with a torch, which is why I said no offense to you.
Does ARP suggest you use lube on all of their bolts/applications? Flywheel, pressure plate, etc...
You should get a copy of ARP's catalog.
It is amazing. Always lube threads. Particularly in the case of ARP units since they will not be made from the same metal as the part they are going into, unless you happen to have an Inconel, chromoly or other high strength alloy crankshaft. Without a lubricant, different metals are more likely to gall. Similar metals gall as well, but just not as badly. Always lube. Thread locker, which is called for sometimes, functions as a lubricant, albeit not a particularly good one.
That is unless you are baller enough to use the ARP lube. I know that shit works, but damn are they proud of it.
LOL. I'm not a baller, but I have probably have like 6-8 of those packets of moly lube that come with studs/bolts from ARP. Maybe I just buy too much ARP shit. 
Yeah, I have a couple of those, but every time I use one, I go price a tub of the stuff and just cringe.